simple fast questions!!

1. Which do you think is to be most true, that we find our vocations or our vocations find us? Does the term vocation or calling suggest an answer to this question? min 200 words

2. As Americans, we are all told that we can be whatever we want, yet many have the idea that all is a matter of fate or divine predetermination, as when someone says, “Everything happens for a reason.” Which of these two sentiments do you believe and live by most deeply? Give specific examples. min 200 words